In search of a parent with a set

There’s lots to be disturbed about in this story:

GirlScoutsWhat does it take for an anatomical boy to be enough of a girl to join the Girl Scouts?

The question came up recently when 7-year-old Bobby Montoya — a long-haired, Bratz-loving, biological boy — asked his mother to sign him up for a Girl Scout troop near his Colorado home.

The troop leader said no. So Bobby’s mom, Felisha Archuleta, went to the media — telling a local television station that her son has loved “girl stuff” since he was 2, and that the troop leader’s decision to reject him had left him devastated.

“I said, ‘What’s the big deal?’ and she says, ‘It doesn’t matter how he looks, he has boy parts; he can’t be a Girl Scout,’ “Archuleta told Colorado’s Channel 9 News.

But in fact, Girl Scouts of Colorado does allow people with boy parts to join its troops, as long as the child is truly transgendered — meaning the child identifies as a girl, and the family identifies the child as a girl.

“We feel it is important to include all girls, so when a family says, ‘This is my daughter and she wants to be a Girl Scout,’ we are not going to question that,” Rachelle Trujillo, vice president of communications for Girl Scouts of Colorado told The Times.

“The troop leader in this case was confused because the mom was confused,” Trujillo said. “She did not say, ‘This is my daughter.’ She said, ‘This is my son and he wants to be in Girl Scouts,’ and we don’t accept boys in Girl Scouts.”

Trujillo said the Girl Scouts of Colorado has only started encountering transgendered children asking to join Girl Scouts in the last three or four years. Since then, she said, her office hears about one or two such cases a year.

“It’s still a very small population,” she said. Girl Scouts of Colorado has more than 30,000 girls.

As of Friday morning, Trujillo said the troop leader was still waiting to hear back from Archuleta about whether she wants to sign Bobby up.

Where’s the father?  Does he have a set?  Might he remind his son that he too has a set?

Does any male in this family have a set?  

Would someone please shake the family tree for males and see if a set might fall out?

Please.

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  • http://www.rustedsky.net Anonymous

    “Mommy, I’m a girl!”

    “Go tell your daddy.  He’ll be surprised to hear that.”

    “Daddy, I’m a girl!”

    “Don’t think so, son.”

    “Yes, I am!”

    “Let’s go into the bathroom. Am I a boy?”

    “Yes, daddy, you are!”

    “Well, boys are shaped differently than girls, right?”

    “Yes, daddy, boys have dangly bits, while girls don’t.”

    “Do I have dangly bits?”

    “Yes, you do.”

    “Does mommy have dangly bits?”

    “No… I don’t think she does.”

    “Do girls have dangly bits?”

    “Uh, no, they don’t.”

    “Do you have dangly bits?”

    “Uh….  yeah.”

    “So, if you’ve got dangly bits, and girls don’t – are you a girl?”

    “Nope!  You wanna go play outside?”

    “Sure, son.  Go tell your mommy you’re not a girl.”

    • herddog505

      Followed quickly by a visit from Child Protective Services and the police who arrest ol’ Dad as a sex criminal.

      • http://www.rustedsky.net Anonymous

        Got kids, Herddog505? LOL.  Ever take ‘em swimming and then shower off afterwards?

        CPS has an unfortunate reputation for getting into situations where they weren’t needed and making them worse, while they ignore situations where they’re really badly needed until far too late.

        This is a reputation they’ve diligently earned.

        I think, with no dad apparently in the picture she just decided it was easier and simpler to raise him as a girl.  Poor kid.  

  • jim_m

    Does any male in this family have a set? 

    This is Colorado.  The only stones you’re going to find are in the mountains.

    • Anonymous

      I beg to differ.  My Coloradan husband has a very, very nice set.  :)

  • Samantha Pierce

    Does it ever occur to anyone to remind these boys that they are indeed boys they just happen to be boys who like the stuff that society deems girly? That would seem less traumatic then trying to convince everyone that a little boy is a girl.

  • Anonymous

    Just curious, but at that age I don’t recall thinking about “sexual” identity.  Perhaps if Momma started by getting junior a haircut, he might start identifying with the physical attributes of a male.

  • http://otisthehand.blogspot.com/ OTIS the hand

    Mommy is a monster.

    • herddog505

      I don’t know if she quite rises to the level of monster, but she’s certainly got a screw loose.

  • Anonymous

    “Where’s the father?  Does he have a set?”

    Probably in Mexico running guns.  

  • Anonymous

    Q: What does it take for an anatomical boy to be enough of a girl to join the Girl Scouts?

    A: Asshole parents.

  • Anonymous

    Seven years-old? Bobby’s liked “girl-stuff” since the age of two? Does any two year-old have a sexual identity? How about at seven?

    Now english is my native language. I was born in CT, to english-speaking parents and went to a grammar school where only english was spoken. I am comfortable with the thought that, had I been born in France, to french-speaking parents and schooled in french language only schools that I would in fact speak french (instead of only being able to swear a bit in french).

    Acculturation is not the name of a breakfast cereal.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/EU5DQWQTTHTPO4A4ZYSL3AAV2U Adjoran

    Well, I don’t think we can require the Scoutmasters to physically check the sex of all the girls, so it’s a problem, all right.

  • Anonymous

    Mommy is pissed that she didn’t have a second little girl so she took care of it by training her son to be one. Now she’s introducing him to the world. I see big psychiatric bills in his future.

  • https://me.yahoo.com/a/93eCswJ12ZFojnxJgeSXKnmwFZhnmUr4Pw--#bfe1d thelastdon

    Could this be described as “child abuse?”

    I hope someone from the Child Protective Services Agency is at this point preparing the legal paperwork to take this child from his mother who from her own statements has proven to be unfit to raise this child.

    A seven year old boy who thinks he is a girl!  This is a psychiatric issue that must be dealt with immediately for the future of the child’s mental health. 

    Shame on the Girl Scout’s spokeswoman, Rachelle Trujillo, who’s statement that the ”Girl Scouts of Colorado does allow people with boy parts to join its troops, as long as the child is truly transgendered — meaning the child identifies as a girl, and the family identifies the child as a girl.

    I hope someone from the Girl Scout’s is also preparing the legal paperwork to dismiss her from her position.  

    Explain to me the logic of allowing and encouraging this delusional behavior?

  • http://www.wizbangblog.com David Robertson

    The boy needs to join the Campfire Kids. That organization used to be for girls only, but now it is gender-neutral.  

  • Anonymous

    What about Boys & Girls Club?  

  • http://www.shockandblog.com/ Jinx McHue

    All the more reason for people to abandon the Girl Scouts.  They are into a lot more crap than just this.

    http://speaknowgirlscouts.com/index.php

    Check out the Girl Scouts’ list of role models:

    http://speaknowgirlscouts.com/index.php?p=1_5_Girl-Scout-Heroines

    Makes you sick.  Thankfully, there are alternatives.  American Heritage Girls is a good one:

    http://www.ahgonline.org/