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Woman calling herself a man gets pregnant; liberals cheer.

I've written about sex changes before. But this one takes the cake.

A "man", by the name of Thomas Beatie, has come out with the fact that he is pregnant. He's expecting a girl in July with his wife, Nancy.

Liberals, of course, are simply swooning. Beatie has appeared on Oprah and is being fawned over by feminists and liberals everywhere. To them, it exemplifies their entire philosophy: if it feels good, do it.

Here's part of Beatie's appearance on Oprah:

Is this some fancy new scientific breakthrough? No, it's just a woman who had a sex change and is now calling herself a man.

I am transgender, legally male, and legally married to Nancy. Unlike those in same-sex marriages, domestic partnerships, or civil unions, Nancy and I are afforded the more than 1,100 federal rights of marriage. Sterilization is not a requirement for sex reassignment, so I decided to have chest reconstruction and testosterone therapy but kept my reproductive rights. Wanting to have a biological child is neither a male nor female desire, but a human desire.

Ten years ago, when Nancy and I became a couple, the idea of us having a child was more dream than plan. I always wanted to have children. However, due to severe endometriosis 20 years ago, Nancy had to undergo a hysterectomy and is unable to carry a child. But after the success of our custom screen-printing business and a move from Hawaii to the Pacific Northwest two years ago, the timing finally seemed right. I stopped taking my bimonthly testosterone injections. It had been roughly eight years since I had my last menstrual cycle, so this wasn't a decision that I took lightly. My body regulated itself after about four months, and I didn't have to take any exogenous estrogen, progesterone, or fertility drugs to aid my pregnancy.


How does it feel to be a pregnant man? Incredible. Despite the fact that my belly is growing with a new life inside me, I am stable and confident being the man that I am. In a technical sense I see myself as my own surrogate, though my gender identity as male is constant. To Nancy, I am her husband carrying our child -- I am so lucky to have such a loving, supportive wife. I will be my daughter's father, and Nancy will be her mother. We will be a family.

Social questions aside, I think this only proves the point I made with my last post about sex changes. Being transgender does not actually change your gender. This Thomas Beatie is obviously still a woman! She can choose to dress like a man, have testosterone therapy and chest reconstruction, but she still has her period once a month and is able to get pregnant.

You can mutilate your genitals all you want, but it doesn't change your gender, no matter how much you tell yourself it does. As I said before:

Now, here's what really puzzles me about sex changes.

When it comes down to it, is the sex really changed?

I mean, think about it. Just because you castrate some guy and carve a vagina into him and pump him full of hormones, how does that make him female? There is more to a vagina than what you see in Playboy, biologically speaking. Most of it is inside our bodies, not outside. I don't think doctors can add on a cervix, or a uterus, or ovaries, or fallopian tubes, or any of that kind of thing -- just like you can't add on a prostate or testis to a woman.

Unknowingly, Thomas Beatie has just proved my point. When she decided to carry their child, she said herself that she didn't have to take any estrogen or any other kind of feminine hormones. She simply stopped her testosterone therapy, and boom, her body regulated itself, she was having periods again, and was able to get pregnant.

I'd say that's a pretty compelling argument that sex changes don't actually change your sex. You're just wearing a permanent costume.

And what will these parents tell their daughter about her conception? Will they disclose to her that "Daddy" is really a mommy? Or will they just whitewash the entire thing?


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Comments (42)

Totally gross!... (Below threshold)

Totally gross!

Sad that society allows som... (Below threshold)

Sad that society allows someone so disconnected from reality to raise a child.

This is one of the most dis... (Below threshold)

This is one of the most disturbing stories I have ever heard, but I guess it was only a matter of time.

I'd think there'd be some s... (Below threshold)
Baron Von Ottomatic:

I'd think there'd be some sort of reprecussions with the hormone therapy transgendered folks require and a developing fetus. I guess we'll see.

I can't belive this!! This ... (Below threshold)

I can't belive this!! This is just crazy nature!

I watched the interview on ... (Below threshold)

I watched the interview on Oprah, it is one
of the most disturbing things I've ever seen.
Basically the woman who calls herself a man
is trying to have her cake and eat it too.
The confusion and imbalance she's caused in
her own family must be huge.
It was also a classic case of narcissism.

Wow... Well, I support him/... (Below threshold)

Wow... Well, I support him/her, since it must be very hard because of all the press and stories... I hope it doesn't die.

Social questions aside, ... (Below threshold)

Social questions aside, I think this only proves the point I made with my last post about sex changes. Being transgender does not actually change your gender. ...

You can mutilate your genitals all you want, but it doesn't change your gender, no matter how much you tell yourself it does.

Exactly. I could have a hysterectomy and mastectomies, but I'm still a woman. Surgery can't change my chromosomes.

I'm simply amazed that peop... (Below threshold)

I'm simply amazed that people watch Oprah.

I echo Baron's concerns.</p... (Below threshold)

I echo Baron's concerns.

There was a time when we wo... (Below threshold)

There was a time when we would try and help people like this. Give them sound, wise council. Help them through rough patches. Maybe even tell them some harsh things to get them to straighten up and see that life isn't all about them and how they "feel" at any given moment.

But then something happened where suddenly, no matter what you wanted to do to yourself, it was normal. Everything is now "normal" and if you try and use the word abnormal, people look at you funny and treat you like you are the pariah.

And so we wind up with this. This poor girl is being abused. Abused by her "wife" abused by Oprah, abused by the press and the liberals who fawn over her.

She's a circus freak but it's ok, because she is their circus freak pushing their agenda.

Let's wait till the baby is... (Below threshold)

Let's wait till the baby is born. If there are no complications, the media circus will convene for a second act. If the baby is deformed or severely impaired, watch this couple vanish from the radar while the media cover their tracks in the interests of "privacy."

I didn't and will not watch... (Below threshold)

I didn't and will not watch the video...this is sick....

Some chick grows a beard, gets a turkey baster and is on Oprah....
And libtards will act like it's such a wonderful miracle

Nice world...whens the comet coming?

NASTY ASS CRAP, NO WONDER W... (Below threshold)


I'd think there'd ... (Below threshold)
I'd think there'd be some sort of reprecussions with the hormone therapy transgendered folks require and a developing fetus.

Generally speaking, you either end up with complete chemical castration, generally not mutation or deformation in biological women, and it's often reversible. Moreover, the chemicals aren't technically required -- you can cut off estrogen or testosterone in transgenders just like you can in normal folk .

Since most transgender individuals self-identifying as male don't go too far with actual changes (a legal sex change can come with a simple 'top' surgical stuff, while 'bottom' side surgery is seldom used since it's so ineffective). Because testosterone only tends to last around 70 minutes to two hours in the human bloodstream, even those who do take the biochemical path -- not all do, as it can lead to some uncomfortable issues -- have good chances of remaining fertile and having normal menses, unless you have the relevant organs removed completely.

Transgender individuals starting on the male side tend to end up with permanent chemical castration after the first year or so of chemical therapy, and genital surgery is significantly more common, so the opposite version of this is drastically less likely.

Personally, I don't really gather much on gender mentally or physically, so the apparent ickiness of this is lost on me. It's physically just a pair of lesbians, admittedly one who is rather impressively butch, with a surrogate parent, if you look at gender as a physical issue. If you look at it from a mental standpoint, in a year the 'mother' will have similar neurochemical reactions to the average male.

The relative ease this pair takes the surrogate situation is a little strange to me, though.

It makes good Opra style ne... (Below threshold)

It makes good Opra style new as does anything that catches the attention. News is selling a product, yes?

But obviously this is *not* a pregnant man.

I wish them both, and the baby too, the best. Lots of people grow up in really weird families and manage.

She looks like George Micha... (Below threshold)

She looks like George Michael after a binge at Old Country Buffet.

Funny how society works, is... (Below threshold)

Funny how society works, isn't it?

A few decades ago, society decided that the "circus freaks," usually people with abnormalities or deformities, were being exploited and that it was uncivilized and demeaning to allow them to display themselves, so the "freak show" disappeared almost overnight - and along with it the sole source of income of most of the people viewed as "victims" of the "freak" sideshow industry.

Out of sight, out of mind, so far as society was concerned, and the "freaks"' own opinions were neither sought nor considered.

Fast forward a few years, and this guy is not allowed to display himself on national television, he is invited to do so by one of the supposedly most "compassionate" TV personalities.

Strange days indeed - most peculiar, Mama.

"Wanting to have a biolo... (Below threshold)

"Wanting to have a biological child is neither a male nor female desire, but a human desire."

Uh huh. And I've got some swamp land in New Mexico I want to sell you. Adopting could just as easily fulfill that desire, and people that go to the extreme of having sex change surgery are most likely to want a complete change, not partial. I'm not going to say out loud what I really think of Oprah right now.

What gender comes down to i... (Below threshold)

What gender comes down to is not so much our biological parts, but how those around us percieve us based on our assumed sex.
I was born female and live as a woman. If I was able to achieve a masculine appearance through hormones or other means, I would be seen as and treated as a man. Which really matters more at the end of the day?

Most of us spend very little, if any, of our lives reproducing, and that is the only time our physical sex matters. Yet every single day we are met with different expectations and treatment based on our gender.

Furthermore, biological sex is not black and white. Nature has always produced a small but noticable amount of people who are intersexed. In "Sexing the Body," Fausto-Sterling points out that intersexed people are as common as albino people.

A woman born female was banned from the olympics for having a Y chromosone.

After she was examined by doctors, this woman learned her cells were not receptive to testosterone. So, when they reacted to the estrogen she produced (all women and men produce this hormone), she grew breasts and hips. Her testes were found on the other side of her labia. [This is also from "Sexing the Body"- the very beginning of the book.]

So, is she really a woman?
What if a woman gets a hysterectomy?
Are women born infertile really women?
Are women with XXY chromosomes really women?
If so, why wouldn't a man who appears and identifies as male be truly male no matter what sex he was born?

Mr. Beatie is obviously exceptional in that he got pregnant, but he is not proof that all transgender people are "really" the gender they were born. He will continue living as a man after his pregnancy ends, so what will it matter if he has history as a female?

What matters is how someone lives, identifies, and is treated.

people that go to ... (Below threshold)
people that go to the extreme of having sex change surgery are most likely to want a complete change, not partial.

For male to female transgender individuals, that's the case. For the other way around, nearly none of the individuals get ac complete change. Medical science just can't make a brand new functioning penis that well, testosterone drips are a massive pain in the backside with a lot of negative side effects, and the medical procedures out there that make individuals less physically female from the waist down usually only mess with internal organs that the person doesn't really see much of.

There are female to male transgender individuals that carve up pretty much everything, but I don't think that's the majority.

One of the first questions ... (Below threshold)

One of the first questions I plan on asking God after I die is "Why are those who most fervently wrap themselves in supposed devotion to you and your son's teachings the first to bring mocking and scorn and ridicule to your other children who don't fit the mold of what they deem 'normal'?" It's the typical evangelical conservative response to anything different than themselves that I see every day living in Utah. Whether it's the black family that just moved into my mother-in-law's all-white neighborhood, or the Muslim guy i used to work with who rolled out his mat, took off his shoes, and prayed to Mecca on his breaks. At least until the Mormon bigot management found some bogus reason to lay him off. What ever happened to "different strokes for different folks" or "live and let live"? The best bet for our society is for scientists to develop time travel, so you and your ilk can happily travel back to 1950's, and leave our time a much better place.

This IS selfish of them. I... (Below threshold)

This IS selfish of them. I pray this child can live a normal life without being teased or harassed. They're not thinking of the child. They're thinking of themselves. I think most of us here will realize that it's not the child's fault and would reserve their opinions for the parents only. But it's not a perfect world where everyone is like Ryan holding back their judgments or opinions ...

So listen up, guys. Ryan is going to teach us about tolerance and acceptance ...

... just as soon as Obama's train "crushes" us, or we "right-wingers" travel back in time to leave his type alone, or as soon as we all admit we're a bunch of "idiot", "right-winger", Christian bigots, or as soon as we can "carry on a serious political discussion/debate" like intelligent people (like him), or as soon as we who comment regularly on this "widdle righty internet site" start acting fairly, or as soon as we "lockstep neocons" explain to him our "3rd grade black and white concept of "winning" or "losing" this war", or as soon as we "Coulter-like caricatures" who populate this "joke site" "cartoon strip" admit how mean and nasty we are, or, well, you get the picture.

Gee, what really happened to different strokes for different folks and live and let live? I guess that excludes anyone who holds a different opinion than Ryan. Especially those who say it out loud.

Thank you so much! ... (Below threshold)

Thank you so much!

"This IS selfish of them. I... (Below threshold)

"This IS selfish of them. I pray this child can live a normal life without being teased or harassed. They're not thinking of the child."

This child can live a normal life if people like YOU can refrain from teasing or harassing her!!! All of the intolerant people who posted that this is sick or freakish or abnormal are the very people that will try to make this child miserable!

I agree with Ryan that it is often the people who claim to worship a God of LOVE that are first in line to spew hatred and anger at anything or anyone that does not fit their narrow views of what is acceptable.

ryan, IF you really believe... (Below threshold)

ryan, IF you really believe in God, when you get up there, why don't you ask him how he feels about a person mutilating his most wonderful creation?

McKracken, that was frigging hilarious!!

Ryan, if you live in Utah, ... (Below threshold)

Ryan, if you live in Utah, it ain't evangelical christians you should be upset with. Ever hear of Mormons you big dope? Blame them.

If you have a Y chromosome,... (Below threshold)

If you have a Y chromosome, I'll call you a man. If not, you're a woman. Cells can't lie for you.

The only way you can change... (Below threshold)

The only way you can change your sex is if you are able to magically change your DNA from XY to XX or from XX to XY. Until that occurs, the only thing a "sex change" really is, is self-mutilation and cross dressing.

I don't understand how someone can "legally" become the opposite sex because of self-mutilation and cross dressing. That's just stupid.

And they Gay/Lesbian/Transg... (Below threshold)
Piso Mojado:

And they Gay/Lesbian/Transgendered/Necrophiala/Pedophelia agenda marches on with their attempt to make all this wacked behavior normal.

It's not nice to fool with Mother Nature. All of it goes against the laws of Nature (and that's not even bringing morality and religion into it). It's just NOT NATURAL - PLAIN AND SIMPLE.

I am not Brad Pitt, but dee... (Below threshold)

I am not Brad Pitt, but deep down in my heart, I know I AM Brad Pitt.

I talk like Brad Pitt, I walk like Brad Pitt, I dress like Brad Pitt...

I just don't LOOK LIKE Brad Pitt.

One of these days I will have surgery to change that and then I WILL BE Brad Pitt.

(now go back and re-read that, but replace every instance of the phrase "Brad Pitt" with the phrase "a woman" and try and tell me that it doesn't make what I wrote any less FUCKING RIDICULOUS)

"This child can live a n... (Below threshold)

"This child can live a normal life if people like YOU can refrain from teasing or harassing her!!!"

And where in the world would you get the idea that I would tease or harass a child? Especially since I expressed the desire that I hope the child will be spared that. Or are you just lashing out blindly, Donna, at anyone without cause or reason?

"Medical science just can't... (Below threshold)

"Medical science just can't make a brand new functioning penis that well,"

By complete change, I meant act out the life of a man fully. This whole thing smells of "circus freak" like previous commenters had already noted. I wouldn't be surprised if they got paid for this stunt ahead of time just to be on Oprah and create sensationalized controversy. There's a lot of competition with ratings, and swaying the public is tantamount to staying on top.

This person should be shot ... (Below threshold)
Charles Manson:

This person should be shot and buried face down, along with the people who left accepting comments. SCREW YOU!!!!

God is dead. Try being a bi... (Below threshold)
the atheistic libertarian:

God is dead. Try being a bit more humanistic for once.

From your perspectiv... (Below threshold)

From your perspective, "God is dead." You don't have to be a humanist to recognize extreme media hype.

Re comment 34: "This person should be shot and buried face down" For a split second, I was thinking this would be a suitable fate for the hostess of this ridiculous program. But I digress...

While I don't agree with ho... (Below threshold)

While I don't agree with how this couple is sensationalizing their pregnancy, I don't believe it's the right of anyone to criticize or belittle these individuals. They live their life in their way. It's not a way I would choose to live, but I'm not them. They are the only ones that have the right to live their life how they want.

Every decision that a person makes has the potential to change their physical health... drinking alcohol, smoking, eating fatty foods, not having a balanced diet. It all can hurt our bodies in different ways, and we often knowingly do it. This individuals decisions about their body are theirs alone. To have those surgeries is their choice. That's the beauty, and sometimes ugly reality of true freedom.

On the issue of he vs. she, no different then calling someone by their name, calling them by their requested gender is a matter of respect. If you truly disrespect someone you will not call them by their name... you will instead call them the most disrespectful name you can think of. In this case, even though all science says he's a she, he prefers to be viewed as a man. If you respect the individual, you will call him a he. If you don't, you will call him the most disrespectful thing you can think of. Would you want to be called a name that is disrespectful? It's the classic golden rule.

Bottom line is, how is this person threatening the way you live? Threatening your life? They aren't. So you live your life, they'll live theirs. If they show up on TV, turn the channel. They don't deserve our attention anyways. They aren't doing anything particularly amazing. But chastising them doesn't get us anywhere.

After reading the comments ... (Below threshold)

After reading the comments both pro and con, I have decided there is no hope for the human race.
Cya...much later.

I think its beautiful. That... (Below threshold)

I think its beautiful. That he would do something like that to start a family. Thats love. I hope all goes well you will be in my prayers

Amanda, it is not a "he" an... (Below threshold)
Captain America:

Amanda, it is not a "he" and you know it.

I suspect you have an irrational, illogical and contrived need to "show" that you are accepting of everything, including freakish abominations such as this that can never be normal because it personifies abnormal.

Face it, "he" is a she and always will be. No amount of hideous surgery, drug suppression, or suspension of reality will ever change that.

Ryan, God is probably going... (Below threshold)
Captain America:

Ryan, God is probably going to answer your foolish question with something like this: "I made man and I made woman as I intended them to be. Are you suggesting I screwed up somewhere?"

You will always be a woman.... (Below threshold)

You will always be a woman. If you have to take a drug to be a man...your not a man. Peroid. If you have a period you are not male. Sick maybe but not a male. I feel bad for the baby. You may love this baby but your baby will be hated for the sake of your shame. What do you tell your child? I am your Dad with a vagina...the poor kid. People like you should be put away in an attic. It's sick plain and simple SICK. Your going to hell. They can have you.






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